Agreed on not kicking the hornets nest. Fwiw I've chatted with you on and off for over a year never thought this of you

I kinda behave that way too sometimes but mostly because I disagree with a lot of what’s said but rather not kick the argument nest. Easier to avoid hurt feelings by not replying. It also gets tiring if you need to argue all the time but you may still want to see what those people say. Often ill follow people because they talk about one topic but then they go off talking about 3 other topics I don’t like so it’s best to just not engage and wait for them to talk about the things I do care about

I stay in touch with those, I mean like theyre actively around at the same time and 3 months go by. Influency behavior, also prone to engaging again if you unfollow

That’s exactly why I want the list mangement. So I can remember who it is and then unfollow 😂 Exactly. Better to focus on sociable npubs

Might not be seeing all the notes, or weird time zones. For example, I know for a fact I don’t see all the notes. I also miss most things as I’m asleep when most are awake here, and I don’t use trending feeds to catch up.

perhaps, I like to unfollow them it's really funny when they start engaging after unfollow then it just double confirms the suspicion ain't nobody got time for that, dis is nostr

I know man. I wish I remembered who they were 😂 I need proper list management on Damus

Or maybe…they think that if you follow them, others will follow them too? Like a “know your neighbour” type thing

It’s like collecting badges for being social…without the social part. It’s very odd

same, lots of follows for a good feed and then lists for people I want to have more deep conversations with ...

100% they think they're so slick at it too

Eh followers don't matter here, for me I find I need to follow tons of accts to have fresher feeds

They’re looking to maximize the number next to follows 😂

I mean the active ones al that are just here to build an audience

follows are a shitcoin

I had to build lists to keep up with the buddies, search feels slow

I think I actually got my relays sorted. For a while there you were a hard search 😅

I notice the active users stay active.

I don't mean you friend, we interact frequently 🫂

I haven't been on here nearly constantly like I had been. I needed the decompression, it's been kinda nice. I still follow a bunch of pubs, intend to go through older stuff I miss, but rarely do. A lot gets drowned out. I've done failed ye I'll catch you when I'm here 👀

lol

ever notice the npubs that engage with you until you follow them and then you never hear from them again i wonder what they're after lol

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