I think clients have to decide who they are designing for and how they want their user experience to be. There will be room for different types of relay handling. Some will have people hunting around and typing in addresses and some will do this automatically. I think if you want your client to appeal to the masses, it has to be all automated away where you don’t even need to consider what relays are. I know bitcoiners don’t like that proof of work and all - and that’s fine but we have to look past our biases and identify how people act and choose (hint: people want easy). But again, this depend on what type of user you’d like to serve. It’s not a one fits all approach.