i'm not even looking, but it is funny to have the change of perception from "i can never afford kids, to I might just be able to afford kids before i'm 40." if I were looking, i would prob log into facebook for the first time in a long time to look up some old college friends to see if they're single. like sending a note "hey friend, how's your life been? still married to so-and-so"? i did not see this possibility on the horizon