GM! if you grow too much 'influence', the universe will focus on you too much and your quantum entangled fleshy supercomputer in your dome was not designed for this many connections. so then you'll retreat, hand over your keys to the sales dept, become aloof and disconnected from the very thing you were wanting: connection. in the future, nostr clients in harmony with relays can act as a reach dial, to dial up or down your reach. so that you can connect on some things and monetize your influence on others.