This is why you should use a private dm relay nostr:nevent1qqsx8g553v99e6559lrg9sa6vv79spfl7mutgsnlydpkp7a8vw4a5ecprfmhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuat50phjummwv5hkjmnzdauqygx4gadjfpq72nj3ppaqnvr8e93eh6su3ffsy44g74qjtzwgpx8pcspsgqqqqqqsqgzcfa