One day you’ll realize that there’s an invisible rule book. It doesn’t exist on paper anywhere and yet for some reason you know all its rules. You then realize that you believe it is important to follow these rules. After you have this realization one of two things are going to happen. 1. You decide these rules are valid and you must live your life by them and enforce them on others 2. You decide these rules only exist in your mind. So you begin to forget them and encourage others to do the same.